Well if you have read my first blog it seems for me that it's vey hard
Been in a new one for about 14 months and it's one of love , mind splitting frustration, are men and woman truely meant to be together in todays climate ! unfortunately you woman are now on the same level as most men . Not a bad thing untill it comes to wearing the trousers  Now before anyone says talking bull this is my thoughts on it .

25 years ago there was a defind roll for you woman and us men . Woman tended to stay at home if they had a family , some worked part time while others decided to work but tended to be in catering, Hotels, restaurants, secreterial, teachers etc. Whatever your job you would find it was under one of us males.
Us men thought it was our duty to bring in the money, go on the piss and generally treat woman as second class citizens.
They came womans lib ! I remember seeing the headlines in the papers " first woman truck driver in the country" or "first forklift truck driver" and so on .

For me that is when our communities started to break down ! both men and woman holding down full time jobs and starting to give men a run for their money stealing high flying jobs that was once maybe seen as a job men only held . bank managers, solicitors, lawyers directors of companies and self employed running their own businesses.  

Woman now had an independance they didn't have before and most of all money. You were able to sample the world as blokes had done for hundreds of years. What happened next was 10 years of prosperity ,the boom years , a family having 2 cars bigger homes , eating out more , you ladies with more money to spend on clothes, hair does, nails etc.

What happened next is you lovely ladies started to share the responsibilty of looking after the kids with the dads and started to party. Look at papers over the past few days about Katy Price !  I have been out partying long and hard all my life especially the clubs and one thing i have noticed is a wedding ring made little difference to what happened outside that marriage ! Something that men have again been doing for a long long time . No wonder we all feel a bit insecure.

As you know i've been married 3 times and have 3 children not all to those relationships. Not because i've been lax in having them because for me and my partners it was the right time , it just didn't work for us.
I'm now 46 and would love to have more children to my girlfriend. Problem is she has taken on the roll of a man and very independant , that means we are both trying to wear the trousers , but like any animal relationship someone needs to stand back. It's not always possible to agree on everything.

I have little work due to the recession at mo and feel i am half the man i used to be because i can't treat my partner or children as i would like. What makes it worse is the woman i love very much at 36 and having major problems being able to try and have children has put me in a situation i don't know how to get out of.

She has decided that if she doesn't try to have them now she may never have them. Does she stay with me and hope that i get the work i need or does she end it to give her the chance to find someone else. Trying to salvage things but think i'm losing the battle