I understand how you are feeling hunny. My Husband went totally off sex when I was pregnant, although he was not so into it before either. Men have real problems talking about their feelings. It is easier for him to retreat into himself. I know this is no help to you, women need to talk it through, men see it as a weakness if they need to talk about emotions and stuff.
You need to sort this out now though, as it will not get any better once baby is here. Babies take more time and energy than anyone could believe possible, and you will need his 100% support. I would really recommend a relationship counselor, and ask your husband to come along. If you explain to him that your marriage is important to you, and you don't want to be arguing all the time etc, i am sure he will come. He might need some time to think about it, but he needs to come. This stress is bad for your baby.
If he won't come, then go alone, but you need support.
As to today, maybe write him a letter telling him you love him etc, how you feel. No accusations remember, just how you feel when he does certain things, or how you feel about your relationship, your concerns etc, a lot like you have blogged here. Then go for a walk, or visit your parents or a friend whatever, and leave him to read it. When you return he should be ready to discuss. If he feels under attack though, he will get defensive and angry, and nothing will be achieved. So take it easy. Good luck

Hi,

Congratulations on your pregnancy, I think maybe you are feeling very insecure because you have your bump and you feel fat and ugly..Well thats how I felt when I had my kids and especially when my now Ex partner didn't show me any attention. You think to yourself dont you "wow I'm giving you a baby here" and your treating me like shit, as for the sex thing my ex never came near me when I was pregnant and I think thats when you need the closeness the most.

He used to say that we never made love because he thought that he would hurt the baby (even though he did have a big willy, I thought oh as if), but it surely must be weird for them as well. I think when your Husband gets up have a chat with him, ask him whats going on and tell him how you feel because if you dont start talking and getting close you could end up like me 3 kids (all to him) never talking for ten years like sharing your house with a stranger and please believe me it is not nice..Sort it today honey and get him to give you lots of hugs.

Hope things work out for you.

Emma.

Well I shall start by saying. Hello you, long time no see. Congratulations on your marriage and pregnancy

You've had a lot of change recently, getting married and falling pregnant its bound to have an affect on you both. Change does that to people. Things have maybe moved faster than you'd care for it to have. Sit down and have a good heart to heart tell each other how you're both really feeling. Hopefully this will clear the air and will help you to adapt to your new lives together.

Good luck honey

{{hugs}}

xx